Preheat the oven to 425 degrees.
Combine soy sauce, chili paste, brown sugar, honey, rice vinegar, lemon juice, ginger and garlic in a small saucepan. Bring to a boil, then reduce heat to medium and simmer for 5 minutes, whisking frequently. Remove from heat and strain through a metal strainer (if you don't have a metal strainer you can skip this step, just try to limit the amount of solids you toss the chicken with later).
Heat 1 inch of canola oil in a covered cast iron pot for about 5 minutes. Remove the lid and carefully place a layer of chicken wings in the pot using tongs. Cook for 5 minutes each side being careful not to burn, then transfer to a foil lined baking sheet. Repeat with the rest of the wings.
Place the fried wings in the oven for 15-20 minutes until the internal temperature is 165 degrees.
Place wings in a large bowl, pour the sauce over the wings and toss by placing a plate over the top of the bowl and shaking, keeping the plate in contact with the bowl the entire time.
Sprinkle with sesame seeds and chopped scallions. Enjoy!